Too often we view orgasm as the sole goal of sex and place it above all else.
However, orgasm is not as simple and common as everyone thinks. Research shows that only 38% of young women usually achieve orgasm during intercourse, while 43% report that orgasms are less frequent.
Another common misconception is that most people believe that penile-vaginal stimulation is the primary way to achieve orgasm. While this is certainly a way to reach orgasm for some, many more women experience sexual arousal after clitoral stimulation.
In fact, 60% of female orgasms come from clitoral stimulation!
Of the women I've worked with in the past who were able to orgasm during vaginal intercourse, it was usually due to friction on the clitoris during penetration. The clitoris is indeed an important part!
We need to understand it well!
Research shows that mutual satisfaction during sex does not solely depend on whether you reach orgasm. Whether men or women, it is easier to achieve sexual satisfaction in the following four situations.

1. Kisses and hugs
2. Enjoy your partner’s caress
3. Have higher sexual function
4. It is easier to obtain sexual satisfaction when you have sexual intercourse frequently.
Orgasm can be a goal of sex, but it's not the only goal.
When we let go of our obsession with orgasm, we can enjoy sex more easily.